What anger shows??????
They say anger is also a sign of love. I was thinking, how?So, here is what I can think of as the supporting reason in favor of the argument.
Q>> Whom do we get angry with?
A>> Either, to the person who is completely stranger to us & has done something terribly wrong which does affect the ecosystem we are part of.
Or, someone whom we know somehow pretty closely at present.
Q>> Is it by any chance with those whom we are in a formal relationship like PM, colleagues, teachers, acquaintances?
A>> Yes, but occasionally.
Q>> So? What does it signifies?
A>> It means we get angry with people from whom we have either no expectations at all or lots of expectations. No middle path.
Disclaimer: The questions & answers are the result of the thought process of the author.
Has someone shouted recently on you or you have politely yelled {When we shout, we are always polite & well-mannered ;-)}?
Someone yelled…or you politely shouted on someone…in person, on phone, via e-mail… with questions like:
“Why did you do this….??” “How can you do this…??” “What are you trying to prove…??”
If yes, then mind it…it may not be in anger. Its may be b’coz other person cares abt ur opinion or vice versa i.e. you care about that person, else why the hell we will patiently wait to hear all this.
After these arguments some people just walk away with bad thoughts about you, while some will stay indefinitely there to wait for your response. These are the ones who care not only about your opinion but also about YOU.
Anyway, if you don’t agree then go ahead, read another blog or post comments. See, I won’t mind any of the options, bcoz my simple theory says “If I don’t know you, I don’t mind.”
I am not strict abt these views. It is just that I can break my head this much only on these lines. Post Comments if you have difference of opinion, who knows may be your comments can give some add-ons to my point of view.
Excogitated by a_beautifulmind @ 5:40 AM
4 Voiced their opinions :
Hmm...true..:-) Anger, like any other emotion has to be expressed on the right person at the right time!!
True da, But I am still confused that if someone who likes you,gets angry with you and says that she will forget you and never mail you.
Does the anger is part of the love?? Or, does that mean he/she never loved you??
Well in anger one says a lot of things..doesnt mean that each and every word said by a person is literally meant. And if all it was meant like not mailing and all...then mebbe its just time to move on!!
To add to d4u, there is a saying (let me rephrase it due to my poor memory), "when someone is angry listen not to their words but their hearts."
Words cannot be taken back - still forgive them. Analyze the source of the trouble and try to sort it out. A friend will never refuse to talk to you bcoz you commited a mistake. A friend will scold you but will always advise you and forgive you thereby giving you a chance to change.
As far as expressing anger is concerned, no point in being blunt in front of everyone. It should be released like d4u said "at the right time" Releasing the anger is like "safety valve" in cooker. It prevents things to explode one fine day causing irrepairable damage.
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